People who try to play God are distorted, sick, chaotic, and evil. They bully, overpower, demand, pressure, and deceive. They put everything in disarray and create never-ending cycles of suppression and malignancy. They deform and devalue the 'other' and they certainly abandon their own life in God.
Do not be like them. It puts your soul in eternal jeopardy.
If you are being treated like this, seek help.
Remember that God wants liberation, joy, and love. He wouldn't have created us and all of the universe, simply to punish us.
He is love and peace.
The only thing worth doing in life is finding Him and living in Him for eternity.